Creating your reality

This page will be one of the most important pages that you will read at this site. I know it is long and there is a lot of information to take in but it is most definitely worth it. Make yourself a nice hot drink and settle down with your computer for the next few minutes. What you will learn here will change your life.

Adjusting your focus

To understand how you can use your focus to your advantage it is important to realise that what you see around you is only a fraction of what is truly there. We are creatures of deletion, consciously we can handle 7 +/-2 'chunks' of information. In order to deal with the infinite number of stimuli that we are subjected to daily we need a system to handle it.

In fact with have two systems, we filter and we chunk.

In order to process more data we simply make the chunks bigger. How we chunk, and what we pay attention to, has a lot to do with our focus. This is what creates our map of reality, but this is only our version of reality. The territory is the world. The map is merely our perception of the world. It is a representation, just as a globe is a representation of the earth. Our map is formed from our beliefs, expectations, values and experiences. As all people are different, each has their own map. The territory presents an infinite array of possibilities, for the pessimist, attention would be subconsciously drawn to negative experiences, filtering out an abundance of positive possibilities. The optimist, however, would notice positive experiences and opportunities.

By consciously deciding how to spend our precious 7 +/- 2 chunks of attention we are able to alter our map, and when we do this we see the world differently. So how would you like to see the world? Full of opportunity and promise? Then this is where your focus should be. As you know, there are an infinite number of different stimuli upon which you can focus, so if you only choose to focus on the positive ones then your world will be a very positive place! But how do you select your focus? It would be an impossible task to consciously filter your experience of the world, as you experience it, so we need to unlock the awesome power of the subconscious, and your imagination is the key!

You always get more of what you focus on, this is one of the most fundamental truths of reality, there are countless examples that illustrate this relationship of focus and experience perfectly but I rather fancy the 'diet' as its illustration can also answer a few other questions!

When you go on a diet you tend to spend most of your time consumed with thoughts of food. Now, I know I said you get what you focus on, but food doesn't instantly appear, the system is a little more subtle than that. Instead, you first create the experience of the food in your mind. Using all of your senses, you recreate the object of your desire mentally, making it mouth wateringly realistic. You begin to salivate as your imagination takes over; all of your senses on overtime. Before you know it, your stomach starts to rumble, and who can blame it? It thinks dinner's on the way and your digestive system needs to kick in. Within a few moments you are feeling the hunger pains and you simply have to have that food! You swing the refrigerator door open an dive right in! Hey presto! Your imagination has become your experience, you have created your reality and you have chosen indulgence!

Your subconscious mind is constantly analysing your environment, busy chunking and filtering information until it comes across something that it thinks deserves your undivided attention. The most well known example of this is the cocktail syndrome, this is what happens when you suddenly hear you name mentioned across the room amidst the drone of conversation. Your subconscious was carefully listening to every word and, when it recognised one that it thought you might be interested in, it stole your attention.

The wonderful thing about the subconscious mind is that it loves nothing more than to prove us right. So, if you have a strong belief about something your subconscious mind will bring all those things that support your belief to your conscious awareness, and, as if this isn't proof enough, it also filters anything that might conflict with what you believe. So the trick is to change what you believe. Once again this is where we rely on the power of our imagination. By simply imagining the reality that you desire you are programming your mind to bring anything that supports this image into conscious awareness and filter whatever doesn't.

To begin with it does take a little bit of effort to imagine wonderful things happening to you, especially if you have been going through a  rough patch. But as you practise these techniques they become more and more powerful, pretty soon you will notice a welcome change in your experience and your beliefs will naturally follow, and as they do, the imagination that fuels the change becomes easier and easier because your experience of reality is closer to it.

There are two things that could stop this process, but we are more than ready for them. It would be all too easy to give up our positive focus if we are going through a bad time or faced with a rather difficult problem. But, using a simple reframing allows you to view such a situation in a totally new light.

Once you have mastered these techniques you are able to use this system to create any experience you desire. Remember, you will always move towards the object of your focus, and there are an infinite number of possibilities for you to choose from. So, if this is so easy, why do we experience problems?

When things go wrong!

If your life is falling short of your desires either you are not consciously creating your reality, or you are not creating the one that you want.

If you are not consciously creating your reality then you are leaving all your decisions to your subconscious mind, and since this makes it decisions based on our beliefs, unless you are consciously programming those, your reality is currently being dictated by everyone else! This may sound a little too much to swallow, as we all like to believe that we are in control, but you are constantly programmed by society in every area of your life. Some of this is obvious, such as the billions of dollars that are spent every year on advertising to ensure that we buy a particular brand of whatever, and some of the programming is a little more subtle, perhaps from peers, idols, trends or parents. If you don't consciously create the reality that you desire then you will not end up where you want to be, it's as simple as that! It is time to take control of your focus... but, first make sure that you really are focussing on what you want!

This is were we come up against our second problem of creation, here we do it ourselves but we somehow never quiet get the results we were expecting. So why is that? Well the problem is all to do with focus! Many people do not realise the literal connection of focus and experience so they focus on what they want and that is exactly what they get... the experience of wanting! This is something that we are going to spend a little time on as it is one of the most important aspects of creating your own reality, and so many people miss it. If you spend all of your focus hoping for something you will only ever have hope, if you spend all of your time longing for something then longing is all that you will receive. Your focus is not to desire for to desire you must first be without. Your focus is to BE and only then will your creation be your desire.

Let's look at this another way, because it is vital that everyone truly appreciates this connection before we move on. We have all heard of positive affirmation, right? Well imagine for a moment that affirmations work perfectly, and are governed by the rules of creation. If you were to repeat over and over, 'I want to be a millionaire, I want to be a millionaire' pretty soon you would have the experience of wanting to be a millionaire, and the only way that this is possible is to not be one, so, you would either make no money at all or, the you would actually lose some. This way you are going to want to be a millionaire even more! So the more you say, 'I want to be a millionaire', the more money you lose, thus the more you actually want it!

Using what we have learned thus far, you will have noticed that if you change your statement to, 'I am a millionaire!' the only way that you can make this a reality is to actually become a millionaire. So, that is what happens! Now, before you dash off to chant your way to fortune notice that I did say 'imagine for a moment that affirmations work perfectly', not that they actually do! It takes a little more than that.

As well as the humble affirmation you are going to need belief, conviction and a whole lot of energy. But it's sometimes not that easy to believe a statement that you know isn't true. So, you will need to use a little bit of trickery, and once again this is were your imagination kicks in! Your imagination is  fantastic tool for creating the reality that you want and once programmed effectively it will always deliver. So, sticking with our goal of riches, our first step is to really get carried away on some creative imagination about how you are... now that you are a millionaire. What are you doing? How do you feel? What clothes are you wearing? Where do you live? Use your imagination to recreate the reality that you desire, but don't focus on wanting it, enjoy having it! and be thankful for all the wonderful things that it has brought you. The more energy you put into this exercise the more effective it will be. You can combine the visualisation with affirmations of power. Command that you are a millionaire, truly believe it and say it with complete conviction.

Doing this exercise will realign your experience until your reality matches your focus. This is simply the way of the universe. There is, however a time lag. The lag only exists within our dimension (the third) beyond the third dimension the time lag is not apparent and we are able to create instantly, but that is not something that we are going to go into in this section.

There are still a few glitches in the system that you should know about before you put all this into practise. Firstly, it is important to really know what you desire and test yourself to make sure you truly do desire it. Because if any part of you doesn't then your subconscious mind will sabotage the manifestation. One of the best ways to establish whether your desires are right for you is to do a future progression. Here you can simply imagine you already have whatever it is that you desire in your life and picture yourself 5, 10 or 15 years into the future to see how this has affected you. I am sure you can understand that not everyone really wants to be famous when they realise the sacrifice that this would mean to their personal life.

Another point to bear in mind is that in our reality things don't simply appear out of thin air (well not until you reach mastery!), they are created in an acceptable way that is in keeping with our understanding of this dimension. So, if you were to use your powers to create a ball, some children playing in the street might kick one over your garden fence. Similarly, if you want to manifest a small fortune, an elderly relative might pass way and leave it to you in their will. Now this is what you want to avoid! So while you are manifesting your reality be sure to keep the images positive!

As you work with this ability you should start on small items that are similar to what you already have. One of the first things I manifested was a rucksack. I was going on a camping trip and had just purchased a new rucksack, which I was busily trying to fit all of my kit into. At the shop I had incorrectly opted for the smaller of the two sizes on offer (and I do believe all things happen for a reason, so I was a little puzzled as to why I had done that!). I eventually gave up and sat looking at my kit, imagining how easy it would have fitted in the bigger rucksack that I had decided not to buy. I drifted into a light trance as my imagination became more and more vivid, visualising myself trekking through the mountain forest with all of my kit neatly packed in the larger rucksack. After a few minutes I snapped myself back into reality and began sorting some of the things I no longer needed and decided to take these out to the skips that were just across the street. As I reached up and opened the lid to the skip I couldn't believe my eyes. Someone had dumped the exact rucksack that I wished I had bought, it was as good as new and also clean, I suddenly realised that all things do happen for a reason and this was a wonderful demonstration of how we create our reality and can manifest solid physical items. When all this happened I was only beginning to learn about the concepts that I have given you above and I was having a hard time accepting them. This 'gift' was exactly what I needed to prove that these powers really do work.

Now, I know a lot of people would simply put these happenings down to coincidence, or luck, but I believe it goes much further than that. The chances of calculating the probability that someone would put that rucksack into that bin on that day are impossible, there are simply too many factors to take into account. But something that we all know the odds to is the state lottery!

Anthony Robbins was once giving a lecture about similar techniques and a young couple in the audience decided to take this idea to the extreme. They planned to win the state lottery by living as though they had already won it. They told friends and family about their good fortune and acted as though they had truly won! Within months they did win. Having tasted success they decided to do it again, same situation but this time they imagined a little more money, sure enough only weeks passed and they won a second time!

A couple hearing this story at a later seminar were puzzled as to why they had not imagined winning even more money. So this second couple followed their example and also began living as lottery winners. They told their friends and family about their win and truly became absorbed in the dream. Their friends worried for their sanity!! Within a couple of months their desires were actualised with a huge lottery win!

Manifestation Meditations

Using meditation allows you to focus your creative imagination, the most powerful tool available. Before you begin, it is important that you know what it is you desire, as well as checking that it is right for you to have it! We have discussed this elsewhere on the site but I will also cover the basic instruction here as not to disrupt the flow of text.

Manifestation meditation works best if you trust your higher self to decide what will best suit your base emotional needs. Many people learn these meditations and try to create physical objects such as a new car or home when all they really desire is happiness. If you want happiness attract happiness and be open to receive whatever you are given, if you set your desires too specifically, then you will only be disappointed.

To discover what you really want, you need to ask some questions.

Lets say, for example, that you want a bigger home. Ask yourself what a bigger home means to you. What qualities will it bring to your life? How will your emotions change because of your new home? Continue questioning your desires until you find the emotional reasons behind them. This could be to feel happier, more freedom, secure or relaxed. When you have found the true reason for your desire think of a symbol that represents this for you. You can use a word if you prefer. If you desire happiness you might like to use a smiling face, for security a golden key, relaxed might be 'Zzzz....' and freedom could be symbolised by broken chains. Use whatever works best for you.

Once you have you symbol imagine yourself standing tall, imagine the horizon all around you, a full 360 degrees. Now visualise your symbol on the horizon, it will appear small, but you know that it will grow in size as it gets closer to you. Now imagine a ball of energy deep in your stomach. This ball of energy can expand and contract as you desire, simply through the power of your thought. It has a magnetic quality and is able to draw your symbol to you. As you expand and contract the ball, the magnetic pull grows stronger and weaker. Play with this for a while and find a level of intensity that makes the symbol quiver, but not too much as to draw it from its position on the horizon. Next, with a deep in breath, maximise the power within your imaginary ball of magnetic energy and watch as the symbols whiz to your body from every direction. Feel the symbols being absorbed into your being over and over, faster and faster. Continue drawing symbols to you and allow yourself to completely absorb them.

After a few moments of doing this you will feel that you have devoted enough energy to attracting your desire. This is a very definite sensation, almost like a switch being turned with a click. Now simply allow your desire to come to you in whatever form it takes and trust that your higher self will bring you your desires in a way that is most suitable for your growth at this time.

The trio of energy

There are three areas of energy that we use to manifest, these are our thoughts, our words and our actions. These three are usually out of sync, we tend to think one thing say another and do something entirely different. By aligning this trio you will vastly increase your ability to create your desired reality.

When you have selected (and tested) your desire, the normal avenue of manifestation is to think about it, then talk about it, then do it. That is the way that all things have come to be. Everything that you see around you has been produced in this way. But this takes time, and a lot of effort.

If you want to increase your ability to create the reality that you desire then you must reverse this process and do the doing part first! To continue with the idea of wealth, as it is something that most people desire it is important for you to act as though you are wealthy in order for you to become wealthy. One of the easiest ways to do this is to give to those that are less fortunate than you.

I am sure you can list many things that you have wasted $20 on during your life right? Well, we are now going to do something with $20 that will empower and change your life in the most rewarding of ways. Go and take 20 $1 bills into the city and when you pass someone that is less fortunate than you give one to them. Do this until you have given away all $20. If there are not many homeless people in your area give $5 to each you pass, or all $20 to a single person if you are really struggling to find someone! Whichever way you do it, don't cheat.. be sure that you give away all $20.

When you are giving your money away do not do this out of pity, do it with compassion and as you do, feel a sense of abundance in your life. What you are doing is moving energy in the grossest of forms. You are sending a definite signal to your subconscious mind that you are abundant. As you give away your money you are making the statement that you have enough to share.

To align the trio you will want to match your actions with your words and your thoughts, as you give away your money say that you are wealthy enough to share your abundance, actually say it... out loud! To complete the trio think it too! Think about how easy it is for you to allow money to flow through you in this way, how abundantly wealthy you are and how you are able to spread such joy with such ease. Think and know that you are abundantly wealthy and you will be. This is an incredibly powerful action as it unifies your subtle and gross creative energies.

the arrangement

For the more spiritual amongst you, lets take a little look at what just happened. Did you walk down the street and give away $20 at random? No. Nothing happens at random, there are no coincidences. So what did happen?

Well a number of years ago, before your birth, you made an arrangement with another spirit. You wanted to learn abundance, they wanted to learn gratitude. You designed a situation that would allow this to happen (along with many other lessons that you both chose to learn) and you then created a life in which you could play out this situation in order to gain your desired experience.

Your arrangement required that you play the part of someone seeking abundance, so it was important that you first created a life where you believed you had none. This was easily accomplished by creating a succession of financial difficulties, but none too harsh! You spirit friend wanted to experience gratitude so they chose to create a life on the streets where many people would pass them by and they would learn to truly appreciate the compassion of a kind stranger, filling them with a gratitude that would go un-noticed in those that are born more fortunate.

After developing your strategies you both agreed on a time and place to meet for this to take place and then were born into your new lives. Oh... you also agreed with me to write this to remind you, as you knew that the trauma of birth would cause you to forget the arrangement!

Once born you lived out your life oblivious, until now, of your prior arrangement. You were also born with free will, so you do not have to honour the arrangement but you devised it to learn abundance, and if you do not learn it, you will simply devise another lesson to be played out in another life. Your spirit friend also forgot the arrangement, but as they followed the life they created they are waiting to give you your lesson of abundance on the sidewalk. In fact many people are waiting, many people have gifts for each other that have been long forgotten. You have made many arrangements with many spirits, as you open your mind to your inner guidance these will present themselves and you will learn the lessons that you have set.

Hypnosis for prosperity

Hypnosis is a fantastic tool to aid your creative abundance. With the 'Financial Prosperity' hypnotic program you have the power to manifest Financial Prosperity in your life. Become creative in your ideas about money. Abundance is the natural state for a human being. This hypnosis program will help you to learn about, incorporate, and practice spiritual laws of abundance in your life.

The guided imagery techniques will help you to realize your full financial potential by turning your subconscious mind into a magnet for wealth. By using your subconscious mind, you will be on your way to attracting money toward you without even realizing exactly how it is happening. For more information of this very special and extremely lucrative hypnotic program simply click on the image above!

manifestation software

One of the keys to manifestation is to shift your focus so that you are tuned to the reality you desire as often as possible. This is sometimes a little trickier than you might expect. To help you to focus on your goals you should make productive use of your computer time. By using manifestation software you can train your focus even while browsing the web!

This is a fantastic way to enhance you creative potential. Every moment that you spend at your computer can be a productive step towards manifestation mastery by simply taking advantage of mind programming software that runs while you work.

Professional manifestation software costs money, unfortunately this stumbling block trips up many people before they begin. If you are seeking to manifest money you are unlikely to want to go spending it in the first place! This is one of the biggest mistakes that someone wishing to develop a creative abundance can make. When you hold on to your money it loses value, the true value in money is when it leaves you. This is when it has the power to transform. Money is a gross manifestation of energy, when it changes hands it creates a movement of energy that ripples throughout the cosmos. We have already seen this in practise in the example of abundance given above, make sure that you really do go out and do this exercise it is more powerful than you might imagine.

Using money as an exchange for knowledge is an investment in yourself. I sincerely believe that manifestation software is an investment for which you will be thankful for many years to come. I do not supply manifestation software of my own, I would not know where to start in making such a program! but I recommend the following products as quality examples of this essential technology.

I have chosen two systems, the first is the Rolls Royce of the manifestation world, Sculptor 3. The features of this program are too great to list here but you can find out more about this product (and why I selected it) by clicking on the image below. Sculpture 3 is cheap for what you are getting but expensive if you are on a tight budget. It sells for around $100, but the author does include a host of freebies that have a collective total that far exceeds this figure. If you can afford it, I strongly urge you to purchase this product. In fact the statement that you make by doing so will help to solidify your abundant reality as we have already seen in the trio of energy.

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If you simple don't have $100 don't worry we have also found you a wonderful alternative that is a fraction of the cost. Subliminal power is gorgeously simple and delightfully powerful. It runs automatically when you start windows and delivers fully customisable positive mind programming using subliminal technology. It couldn't be simpler to use and is very effective. What makes subliminal power so attractive is the pre-set system that delivers ready made subliminal affirmations from a program of your choosing.

Most people look for customisability when the purchase a program such as this, so that they can design their own affirmations. With subliminal power you can do this, but what most people neglect to realise is that when you design your own affirmations you run the risk of mistakes. If your affirmations are future paced or not wholly positive you are not going to be enjoying the results you desire! Subliminal power has a host of professionally constructed 'power' affirmations that make sure your program is a success. You can choose from a vast selection of possibilities, with programs as diverse as lucid dreaming to public speaking! And if you want to have a go at it yourself you always have the option of making your own!

If you would like to view an online demonstration of subliminal power click here when the demo has finished you will need to manually close the new browser window to get back to this site. For more details of this program and ordering information click on the image below. The cost of subliminal power is around $30. The author does have a deal on at present so it is worth checking this out immediately.

books to create wealth

Most people desire wealth, so we have focussed on this area a great deal in this section. There are also a collection of books available that will enhance your creative abilities and allow you to draw wealth into your life.

Creating money, the first book featured below covers some excellent manifestation techniques as taught by higher spiritual beings and channelled through Sanaya Roman and Duane Packer. If you have any negative beliefs about the acquisition of wealth or the combination of financial abundance and spiritual growth then you absolutely must read this book. Money is not evil, we have long been conditioned by society into believing that it is. Letting go of this false belief is your first step to abundance, this book will allow you to do this and teach you manifestation techniques that will actualise your desires quickly.

To view the title, hover the mouse pointer over the book image. For further details (including online reviews, synopsis, larger image and ordering information) click on the link below the book. Use the UK or US links depending on your location. (both sites ship worldwide)

Creating Money - Sanaya Roman, Duane Packer A Spiritual Guide to Money: How to Use Money for Personal Growth & Genuine Spiritual Experience - Ph.D Waldman, Abdul Aziz Said The Little Money Bible: The Ten Laws of Abundance  - Stuart Wilde Don't Worry, Make Money: Spiritual and Practical Ways to Create Abundance and More Fun in Your Life  - Richard Carlson
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The Trick to Money Is Having Some  - Stuart Wilde The Courage to Be Rich: Creating a Life of Material and Spiritual Abundance  - Suze Orman The 9 Steps to Financial Freedom: Practical and Spiritual Steps So You Can Stop Worrying (Miniature Editions)  - Suze Orman
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